Performing Under Pressure
We all face pressure moments in both our personal and
professional lives. It is the ability to deal with pressure that ultimately determines
the success of the individual. I recently read the book Performing Under
Pressure (The Science of doing your best when it matters most) by Hendrie
Weisinger and J.P.Pawliw-Fry and it was a thoroughly interesting read. Here I
want to share some of the strategies mentioned which I found to be practical
and easy to implement with my take on each.
Befriend the moment: It
is how you view the pressure moment that ultimately matters. If you view it as
a challenge you are bound to perform better. So view every moment as a
challenge and prepare yourself accordingly.
Multiple opportunities: The
main premise is you should never consider any situation as do or die. Let’s say
you have a job interview make sure you don’t view it as final chance. There
will always be other opportunities.
Downsize the Importance: This
is a follow-up to the earlier strategy. Don’t give anything too much importance
because if you do then when something wrong happens it takes much longer for
you to bounce back. A nice idea provided by the authors is to be mindful of
what is important in your life.
Focus on your mission:
Basically if you are clear on what you are trying to achieve for example
nailing the interview it prevents distracting thoughts generated by external
distractions. It has also been well established that when you have a personal
mission statement you are more happy and relaxed. So go ahead and define your
personal mission statement.
Anticipate, Anticipate, Anticipate: This principle basically asks you to be prepared for
the worst possible outcome. If you do then you feel relaxed and actually
perform better.
Recognize that you are worthy: Basically affirm your self-worth. My own strategy here
is to maintain a log of every accomplishment I have ever had and look at it daily.
Also be aware of your strengths and focus on them always.
Recall you at your best: This
strategy has been known for decades and has been used by sports stars from time
immemorial. Basically before any important event make sure you flashback to
your previous success. I would suggest keep a track of all your victories till
date and keep reviewing them daily
Here and Now: Stay
in the moment is one of the best pressure handling strategies. Let go of the
past and ignore the future as otherwise we will not be able to respond to the
now.
Carry a Pressure tune: Always
keep in hand any great songs that gets you relaxed or into a positive frame of
mind. We have seen sports stars always listen to music before a major game.
Listening to music seems to distract us just enough to get the job done. I
remember Chris Gayle the cricketer who always listens to music before he starts
playing.
Write Pressure off: When
you write down your stressful situations it makes your situation far better.
You feel a lot calmer when you write down your problem.
Speed Kills: Basically
slow down your thinking. When we are under pressure our mind is racing and the
key is to recognize that and slow down deliberately.
All the strategies above can help get our bearings right
when we inevitably face pressure points in our life. The book has much more
strategies and many interesting examples as well.
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